When in company, put not your hands to any part of the body, not usually discovered.
Spit not in the fire, nor stoop low before it neither put your hands into the flames to warm them, nor set your feet upon the fire especially if there be meat before it.
Put not your meat to your mouth with your knife in your hand neither spit forth the stones of any fruit pie upon a dish nor cast anything under the table.
By age sixteen, George Washington had copied out by hand, 110 Rules of Civility & Decent Behavior in Company and Conversation. They are based on a set of rules composed by French Jesuits in 1595. Today many, if not all of these rules, sound a little fussy if not downright silly. It would be easy to dismiss them as outdated and appropriate to a time of powdered wigs and quills, but they reflect a focus that is increasingly difficult to find.
They all have in common a focus on other people rather than the narrow focus of our own self-interests that we find so prevalent today. Fussy or not, they represent more than just manners. They are the small sacrifices that we should all be willing to make for the good of all and the sake of living together.
George Washington's Rules Of Civility And Decent Behavior.
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At Washington College in Chestertown, Maryland, USA - the only college that George Washington gave permission to use his name - incoming students are given these rules in a small book. Washington actually was on the Board of the college and gave money to it.
In relation to David Brooks nice article 'In search of dignity' from yesterday - http://www.nytimes.com/2009/07/07/opinion/07brooks.html
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